If you're hiring a band to perform at your reception, they should be able to provide you with a list of songs from their repertoire for the traditional father-daughter dance, if you choose to have this at your reception. If you have a DJ or a preselected playlist, you'll need to come up with this song on your own -- and there's a lot to choose from.

About.com's Fatherhood page offers their Top Ten father-daughter dance songs to help you choose.

  1. Butterfly Kisses -- Bob Carlisle
  2. When Angels Fly -- Tony Ransom & The Heavely Light Orchestra
  3. I Loved Her First -- Heartland
  1. Through the Years -- Kenny Rogers
  2. Sunrise, Sunset -- from Fiddler on the Roof
  3. How Sweet it is (to be Loved by You) -- James Taylor
  4. The Way You Look Tonight -- Frank Sinatra
  5. Unforgettable -- Nat King Cole & Natalie Cole
  6. Lullabye (Goodnight my Angel) - -Billy Joel
  7. My Father's Eyes -- Amy Grant

For more on these songs and links to listen or purchase the CD's, visit this page.

My father-daughter song isn't on the list - -the folk band Girlyman (not your typical wedding band) played my reception, and Dad and I danced to one of their original songs, which the band chose and I loved.

So, will you be having a father-daughter dance at your wedding? What will your song be?