Now that we've dealt with how to involve kids in your wedding, how do you plan to keep them entertained at your reception? Fancy parties can be a real drag for kids, and they may be let down when they realize just how little of your attention they're going to get as you juggle eating, dancing, and mingling with throngs of well-wishers at your reception. Here are seven ideas to keep the kids occupied, entertained, and happy at your reception:
- Have a kids' table with a special menu: Let the kids party together instead of assigning them seats surrounded by adults. Also, kids don't want to eat duck or filet mignon - they're happy with hot dogs and grilled cheese (and it's cheaper for you, too).
- Provide activity bags for them: Throw together a bag of coloring books, silly putty, and games for each child in attendance. They'll feel special because you are giving them this present, and they'll be able to keep themselves busy, giving you and their parents some adult time.
- Have an activity table for the kids: Along the same lines as the activity bag, an activity table can be a fun diversion for the kids. Set up a big piece of paper and have the kids collaborate to make you a wedding mural or collage for a unique keepsake.
- Play music the kids will enjoy: You don't have to have a whole playlist of Raffi tunes, but have a Chicken Dance or Hokey Pokey in the mix and let the kids show you how to boogie.
- Have a make-your-own sundae line: We did this at my reception -- just set up a few gallons of ice cream, sprinkles, chocolate, butterscotch, etc, and the kids will have a ball. They'll also get really, really hyper...
- Enlist or hire a babysitter: It could be a big help to have someone else in charge of wrangling all the munchkins at the party. This way their parents have time to socialize, and they've got someone giving them the attention they crave, and supervising any other activities you have planned for them.
Are you doing anything special for the kids at your reception?
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Dress of the day: Anastasia by Maggie Sottero
Unusual wedding cakes from Dragons and Daffodils
