We should just elope! Or should we?
Filed under: Honeymoons, Alternative Weddings, Budget Advice, Receptions
If you've made it a few months (or weeks, or maybe even days) into planning your nuptials, I bet the thought of running away with your fiance and eloping has at least crossed your mind, if not your lips. Hey, I thought about it a LOT, and I love planning!
Eloping can solve a multitude of problems, but it's not to be entered into lightly. You could go to your local city hall, jet to Vegas and hit a drive-thru chapel -- there are loads of choices. Regardless of what option strikes your fancy, be sure to consider the following when deciding whether eloping is right for you:
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If you're a spontaneous couple and eloping totally suits you, great. If this is completely out of character and you're just wanting to avoid the stress of planning a wedding, make sure the repercussions of getting married without family and friends will be acceptable and won't just lead to more stress.
- Maybe your parents disapprove of your fiance, and you feel like this is the only way to get married without dealing with their objections. Keep in mind that marrying without notifying your family could be the nail in your relationship's coffin, and you'll want to be sure this is something you're ready to face.
- Are you just dying to be married NOW? If you're in a time crunch, you might want to consider getting legally married now and having a big reception (maybe a ceremony as well) later with all your friends and family.
- Are you motivated by lack of funds? You could elope now and plan for a big celebration on your anniversary in a few years, when you've got some cash saved.
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