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That was not at all useful. There was nothing in the article that talked about finding one to suit my needs, just general places to look, which any bride-to-be will already know unless she lives in a cave and have not heard of bridal magazines or the internet. I am looking for a photographer who can take artistic shots, not the so-called photojournalism which is just another word for a guy with a camera. The 15 or so photographers I've met with all said that they can do it but since I have not seen such results from their past weddings, how do I know they can? The one guy that has proof of such work charges an arm, a leg, and a kidney. So I will go back to looking on the internet and the bridal magazines. Thanks for nothing.

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Don't take word of mouth for granted. I was royally screwed over by a photographer who did my best friend's wedding-- I had met the guy several times due to his working my friend's wedding (I was MOH) and I knew as soon as I got engaged I wanted to book him. He was pretty popular, so I decided to book him as soon as we set a date so I could be sure I got him.

Well, we had a date, but not a location or itinerary, and did not want to commit to a package until we had those things figured out. He swore up, down, and sideways that my signature on the contact and his $500 deposit would be sufficient. Well guess what! One month later his wife called (and very snottilly) informed us that our contract was incomplete and therefore they bumped us for another couple. Sure nice when a vendor cares about you and your business, huh?? You would have thought if the "incomplete contract" was a problem he would have said something instead of saying that my signature and MY MONEY was sufficient. OH and on top of that, when I finally got ahold of the photographer himself (since I wanted to hear it from him, the big chicken, and not his bitchy wife) he siad that I had left no form of paperwork at all! Which was an OUTRIGHT LIE! >:-p We got our deposit back but we told them they could stick their list of referells where the sun don't shine (like I'm going to go hire their friends after they did that to me!)

I ended up finding a different, less expensive photographer I feel clicks MUCH better with me anyway. But don't make the mistake I did! Shop around, even if you're 99% sure a photographer is the one you want.... so in case one DOES screw you over, you have ideas about who else you might like and you don't go into a tizzy like I did.

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As a professional wedding photographer, I just wanted to put my two cents worth in here. It pains me greatly to see so-called professional photographers treat clients badly. It hurts the industry in many ways. I strive everyday to rise above that kind of business dealing. Brides, you must understand a few things about wedding photography. First, if remembering this most special day is important to you, then you must find someone who has many unique talents, not the least of which is being able to take gorgeous images. Great wedding photographers are VERY hard to find among the many amatuers and poseurs out there. This is a career that takes the following to do well: an in-depth knowledge of weddings and a lot of experience doing them - a very creative and inventive mindset, capable of shooting even in a dreary setting and yet making it look artistic - very high technical skills with the right equipment and lenses, and the know-how to use them - backup equipment - one who knows how to bounce and diffuse the flash and can properly shoot indoors - a true professional with the highest of ethics, someone who does what he says, has great referrals from past clients, who will be there no matter what or have another competent professional there in his place (if he is deathly ill) - someone with tremendous people skills, having the ability to work under extreme stress and pressure without losing it, who has a great and winning personality, who is fun and can bring out the best in people, and who won't make your wedding party want to strangle him / her - one who knows how to artistically arrange and pose groups of people, making them appear natural and relaxed, not stiff as a board or poorly arranged - a great sense of humor and the ability to keep things light - one who leaves his ego elsewhere, and makes the job all about YOU and your event - one who won't ever be rude or unprofessional - one who works quickly and keeps with the timetable of events. Finally, one who's pictures make you ooh and ahh.

Those of you who think your cousin or uncle with his shiny new Nikon can do all of that, hopefully can see that really great wedding photography takes a multitude of skills to do properly. You can skimp on the flowers a bit, you can back off on the food or decorations here or there, and you can make other adjustments if you're creative. You'll be less disappointed by those things than you will if you're left with poor wedding photos. The day is too important to leave to amatuers.

As for videographers: sure they're great if you have the budget, but it's hard for photographers and videographers to work without getting in each other's way. Most people will choose a great photographer over a videographer any day. Why? You can't print out high-quality photos from the video, you have to watch the thing on TV (not really a portable product), and doing proper wedding video takes at least two cameras (very expensive ones, not cheapies) sound equipment to capture the voices, and a heckuva lot of experience. And, I don't care what anyone says, any good photographer who captures your ceremony properly WILL get in the videographer's shot. It just can't be helped. I'm a professionally-trained videographer and know what I'm speaking about here.

Brides, examine your photographers closely. Read their contracts carefully. Ask lots of questions. Do take the time to get back with those you do NOT select and give them the courtesy of thanking them for their time. Even giving them feedback on your reasoning will help them do better in their own careers. And on the question of film vs. digital - if your photographer shoots film, they are less likely to give you the negatives or will want to sell them to you for a very high price (because they cannot be replicated without losing quality). Digital photographers can duplicate the work much more easily and are more likely to give you the high-res images on disc. I think this is important, and you should keep the disc backed up on a computer somewhere forever. Discs do go bad eventually. I use archival grade discs which last a very long time.

Finally, find a photographer who will give you ALL your digital images, with the understanding that you will keep the disc to yourself, and you will send all relatives and friends to the photographer for prints that they want. This saves your time, ensures that you will own your images, and the photographer makes money from print orders. A win-win for everyone!

I hope this helps!

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