After you take that walk down the aisle, things will change. Even if you lived together before the wedding, it's very likely that life will seem just a little different after you are legally wed, and that's not a bad thing. It helps your relationship with your spouse continue to evolve. But what about your other relationships?

Friendships outside your marriage can suffer if not tended to properly. This article on MSN Lifestyle provided some interesting insight into friendships after marriage by differentiating the types of friends one might have and the various reactions said friends might have to your newly married status.

  • Same-sex friends probably won't pose a huge amount of concern unless one spouse spends A LOT more time with their friends than the other spouse wants. If you feel like your honey is spending too many nights out with the boys, let him know and explain why it bothers you. In this situation, compromise is key.

  • Friends of the opposite sex can be a little trickier (especially if this friend is an ex -- watch out!). These friendships can spark jealousy really quickly. To avoid this, try including your spouse in whatever you're doing with your ex. If he/she wants nothing to do with your friend and doesn't want you around them either, you need to evaluate what's more important to you -- your partner in marriage or your friend. Just be honest, whichever side you're on -- if you're bothered by the relationship, tell him why. Do you think she's a hoochie who's after your man, or do you just not like the fact that he spends any time with another woman?
  • Single friends are the ones you don't expect to change, but it's very possible they will. Whether it's because your friend is jealous that you're married and she's not, or is just upset that you spend a lot of your time with your man, she might change the way she behaves around you. Try your best to spend time with her the way you did before you got married, and talk about things other than, "You wouldn't believe what my husband did the other day ..."

  • Other couple friends will likely be the friends toward which you and your spouse gravitate simply because you have things in common. And let me tell you -- if you find a couple with whom you and your better half get along well, and you like them both, hang on to them. While it's always wonderful (and important) to have friends of your own, friends you can share are invaluable, and because it's two personalities having to mesh with two other personalities, they're harder to find.
Bottom line is, make sure you spend the appropriate amount of time and energy on your friendships as well as on your married relationship. Both are important to your well-being, and even though your life is changing, you need to make sure you don't ditch people from your past.