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Mothers of the groom, you aren't doomed to the role of "shut up and wear beige." If you are the mother of the groom and you're wondering what you can do to be a bigger part of the wedding, here's a run down of the traditional duties, according to About.com:
  • Attend the bridal show, bring a gift, and help rally your side of the family to attend.
  • Coordinate the rehearsal dinner and foot the bill.
  • Compile your family's half of the guest list and assist with providing appropriate addresses.
  • Follow up with your guest lists regarding RSVPs.
  • If you want, contribute a toast at the wedding.
  • Dance with your son during a mother/son dance, if your son is having one.
Traditionally, the groom's parents pay for the rehearsal dinner, their tuxes/dresses, their personal transportation, and a wedding gift for the bride and groom. The parents of the groom may contribute to the overall cost of the wedding, depending on the circumstances.

And for that mother of the bride dress, you aren't forced to don your beige apparel. Find out what the mother of the bride is wearing and coordinate your dress to compliment hers. As long as you aren't wearing white or the same color as the bridesmaids, feel free to find something beautiful. Check out for some tips on finding a dress!

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