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When the bride and/or groom are also "mom" or "dad" to a child or two (or more!), the wedding isn't just about bringing together two people, it's about creating an entire family, all at once. If the children are old enough to know the difference, they're old enough to be included, if they wish, in some way.

Tangible symbols are good for this purpose. We've talked about the family candle, but if the thought of handing your child an open flame has you in a cold sweat, you might prefer the more benign and completely flame-retardant Unity Sand.

There is one central vase, and as many smaller vials as you require. You get to choose the colors of the sand -- shades of the same color, complimentary, or a wild rainbow of brilliant hues. Whatever suits your family. Each member of the new family pours in a layer, and together you form a thing of beauty to remind you all that individually, you're perfect, and together you're even better!