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Jun 9th 2008 @ 2:43PM
sarah gilbert said...
I think she's really off-base here. Sure, an affair might be the jolt you need to do some soul-searching and realize what it is you really want from life. or reconnect with your sensual self. or figure out what it was you fell in love with in the first place and rediscover that. or whatever. but... it's a terrible way to do so and then you'll always have that guilty secret! why can't you get the same jolt through a number of other less compromising activities. say, going on a trip by yourself, or going to a workshop on rediscovering yourself, or reading books on sensuality, or taking a class, or carving out time for a well-loved hobby, or just finding a way to "date" your spouse again. renewing your vows by violating your vows rubs me the wrong way.
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