When you're deeply in love with the man/woman of your dreams, you'll often decide that total honesty is what's required for lifetime happiness. We found a list of secrets men keep from their wives, and another of secrets women keep from their husbands. Some of these are scarcely secrets at all -- is any woman truly surprised that her man notices other women? Some probably don't apply to you or your fiancé(e). But some of them might sound just exactly right!

There are secrets and secrets, of course. It's one thing to keep your negative feelings about his brother to yourself. It may be a different thing entirely to opt not to tell your partner that you got a substantial raise. Or maybe you think both of those are wrong -- or both of them just fine!

What do you think? Do you keep secrets from your partner? Should you? Is honesty always the best policy, or is there a time to keep your lip firmly zipped?