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The bridesmaid has a never-ending list of details and responsibilities to make the bride's wedding experience a dreamy one. Below are the essentials to stay on track.

Bridal Shower

Choose venue and date (confirm that bride is available)

Compose guest list and mail invitations

Find out bride's registry info

Choose an outfit for the event

Coordinate set up/clean up

Decide on theme and decorations, if applicable

Devise a time line for the party

Coordinate food and drink

Choose games

Choose music and entertainment, if applicable

Discuss the bridesmaids' responsibilities (who will organize games, help the bride open presents, etc.)

Coordinate payment (if bridesmaids are paying for shower)

Order or assemble favors for guests

Discuss how to transport the bride's gifts home

Bachelorette Party

Decide on a location and date (confirm that bride is available)

Finalize the guest list and spread the word

Arrange transportation and hotel, if applicable, and pass along relevant info to attendees

Make restaurant, spa or club reservations, if applicable

Choose decorations, if applicable

Coordinate set up/clean up, if applicable

Arrange games, music and entertainment, if applicable

Choose an outfit for the event or pack for a weekend trip

Arrange collection of payment from attendees

Confirm any reservations

Bridesmaid Dress

Get fitted for and order bridesmaid dress

Arrange payment

Pick up bridesmaid dress and get any necessary alterations

Choose appropriate lingerie, including strapless bra and panty hose, if needed

Choose accessories, including shoes, jewelry and purse

Decide how to do hair and makeup, or make appointments if necessary

Check dress for any wrinkles or imperfections and fix prior to the wedding day

Wedding

Get wedding-day time line from the bride

Attend hair and makeup appointments, if applicable

Bring wedding toast, if applicable

Arrive at specified time, either already dressed or with dress and other necessities in hand

Help bride with any preparations

Smile and pose for photographs

Follow instructions for processional

Help greet guests

Check to see that bride is eating, etc.

Mingle with guests and dance with groomsmen

Assist bride and groom with departure

Wedding-Day Emergency Kit

Show up prepared and save the day. Consider packing a bridal emergency kit with any or

all of the following:

Gum or mints

Dental floss

Mouthwash

Deodorant

Tampons

Contact-lens solution or eyedrops

Sunblock

Moisturizer or body lotion

Cotton balls or swabs

Tissues

Tweezers

Small mirror

Small perfume

Chapstick or lip gloss

Makeup

Hairspray





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